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Somebody call 911 TO show review

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Hello Redd Planet family,

First we want to take a few moments to ourselves to enter into a peaceful state. Let's thank Grant for this mediation exercise. Sit in a comfortable position ....You empty your mind of every thought except relaxing. ...Let's take a few slow, deep, relaxing breaths. You focus on your breath flowing in and out. ...You allow all your worries to shrink away....Imagine more and more stress leaving with each one of your breaths.
Let go of all your tension and let it pour right out of your mind ...Allow your mind and body to relax..Release all your cares and worries ...You will discover certain thoughts, images, memories, and ideas spontaneously passing through your mind about this ...Repeat to yourself three times, "I am happy, I am stress-free, I am calm."

After seeing the TO show one thing is clear to me, TO from your favorite online blogger dude, you date Jessica and leave the rest of women alone. In the first few minutes of the show I thought it was really beautiful what TO did for Kita his publicist. She then receives a Diamond necklace by Joe Hardy that couldn't be there but he could spread that kind of bread. TO and MO did agree that it was time for her to give up the cookies. Which poses a very interesting question, Do you think a gift but not a visit justifies giving up the cookies?

On to the scene steps Jessica White to a rough welcome from his people. She then delivers flawlessly, "you can Google me Jessica White". I was like wow that was clean to the bone. It commanded respect and showed them and Terrell she could take on any situation. Not to mention got them on board real quick. This is the exact opposite of what Kari did when meeting them. Jessica was aggressive as well. She paid attention to everything he did and she knew the exact words to say. I thought the date went very well. The gift of the necklace in my eyes was just like putting his chain around her neck. She was aggressive about taking him out to dinner. Why does this matter? This is because Kari had only one dinner because she was passive and not direct. TO is 38 he needs straight forward and direct.

I thought it was the right thing to do to go ahead and try to give Kari some closure but at the same time I think it should have been a closed door but to each its own. When TO got back she was waiting with drink in hand and offers him a drink and then she calculated her approach and she already predicted he would have a long trip. The sequence of words she used and then all important "I am going to give you a minute to relax by yourself. The only thing I caution is if she is bold enough to do that, what else is she capable of?

In the end I thought Jessica White came in and found out exactly what TO like and needed to hear and was able to capture and hold his attention in a personable way. She made gesture that she was not into his status but into him. He made a hint that he didn't want her to leave. He also mentions he like a woman with edge and she showed that. So someone call 911 for Kari because after that sequence of events she sent her to the clink. Next Blog Mamma's boys.

I hope you many blessing and God bless

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Why Men act the way they do? Behind the scene view

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Hello Redd Planet Family,


First we want to take a few moments to all ourselves to enter into a peaceful state. Credit Grant for this mediation exercise. Sit in a comfortable position ....You empty your mind of every thought except relaxing. ...Let’s take a few slow, deep, relaxing breaths. You focus on your breath flowing in and out. ...You allow all your worries to shrink away....Imagine more and more stress leaving with each one of your breaths. Let go of all your tension and let it pour right out of your mind ...Allow your mind and body to relax..Release all your cares and worries ...You will discover certain thoughts, images, memories, and ideas spontaneously passing through your mind about this ...Repeat to yourself three times, “I am happy, I am stress-free, I am calm.”

Now that we are in Redd Planet, after reading this blog you will have absorbed a few different views on how Men think, and various types of Men. The 1st difference is in the way Men and Women think is the priorities in the journey in becoming a man or woman. In a boy’s journey to becoming a man, he hits a very important stage in his life that determines the course of his life I call Hunter. With women outside their spiritual journey, it is said that in a woman’s journey of finding love is extremely important and sometimes cause her to do some crazy stuff some irrational behavior. Well in the stage of becoming a man (the Hunter phase) carries that same weight of importance if not greater. It is because in this very important hunter phase the ego is created , man rank among men is determined and personal appetite is born. So understand for those of you are men feel men and for everyone else this is your memo, that in the male journey there are very limits on what a man will do to advance himself in the world so what may seem like a cold act is what some consider an act in our best interest in the journey to become a man because either they are in the phase not to know any better or they think the cause is to important, or the end justify the means.

Hunter

Ok, 1st thing I will need to go over is the Man's self perceived "prime". When and what stage in life that a man experience his 1st significant increase in fame, popularity, or attention from women in his mind. This stage can last anywhere starting at 2 years and on average 5-7 with the most extreme cases being 15 +. It is in this period when man tries to fulfill every fantasy he has ever had. He also is going to try to date as many women as he thinks a person of his stature should have after him. I refer to this period as the Hunter. He will most times remember what he wore, what he was doing, how he talked, and what method he used to get into his prime. He is finding himself in this period. In this period he also determines what kind of women that he attracts and how that ranks him in the world and against other males.

How do we rank?

Quality (Average grade of woman) + Results (Success rate of meeting women) = EGO

If this equation does not add up to what a Man thinks he supposes to have then he will continue to question the results of the EGO. When such things happen it can trigger Men to behave in some irrational ways. So in short if a Man does not think he has gotten enough women, the quality or various type of women he deserves, or success rate was too low at getting his ideal women it will question his ego, causing doubt, hesitation, and various conditions that I will write about later.

Ok, the next thing is after this prime period a Man normally settles down into a relationship or a partnership conducive of him continuing this quest to balance his equation, or make his mark as a great hunter and worthy of respect. In other words either he gets married or finds a woman who puts up with his life style. So how slow or fast a man is able to balance his equation, or realizes the bigger picture, or other times an event or person will trigger the end to this stage. We know that knowing what stage a Man is in and how deep in that phase is the Key to answering this question and several of the ones I am going to answer in this blog. So henceforth I will refer to it as Hunter.

Important terms: balancing the formula or equation- means he is dealing with the life struggles that present themselves in his journey to become a man depending on how he deals with life this is the action of trying to correct that imbalance.

EGO- the person that the man has created in his head that he should be during his lifetime or sometimes the ego of an idol or someone he thinks is the epitome of who he wants to be and the urge to become this person sometimes by irrational and stupid means.


Why is it so hard for Men to settle down?

Answer:
So the answer to this one is men have to feel like they have lived out whatever their ideal prime is in their head. Meaning they have successfully made it past the hunter part of the journey and got it out his system. They also must feel like they have earned the ego they have determined by the Martian formula EGO. Once either this fantasy is fulfilled or a better one come up, and the ego reaches the right size and attention he will be ready to settle down. In other words he got it out of his mind or has a woman in there. It can be proven to be quite a struggle to get this Man to go against his EGO or stop going out.

What age is too old to be getting sloppy drunk on a weekly basis?

Answer:
For a Man it depends on when he had his Hunter prime and how well is he dealing with the EGO factor. If he had the Hunter early and he is dealing the EGO well then he will be out of it by 25. If his Hunter came late and the later the Hunter the longer it last, and the tougher it is to deal with EGO then this period can last into late 30’s or develop into a lifestyle. If he is in the last 30 phase know his is high risk for that is a lifestyle think about it like a biological clock.

Men really know what they want?

1st not truly until they get out that Hunter phase they are going through before they can not doubt what it is they want. Is it possible for them to know while in this stage, Yes but it is possible they may not be sure as well.

Why men cheat?

1st, some Men are just made that way. This is true for women too. 2nd It is because they did not properly go through the hunter process or they never truly entered the process but skipped to another phase. Meaning I didn’t get enough women, or I didn’t get enough fine women, or I didn’t get the right type of women, or they are plain stuck in the hunter phase and haven’t broken it or have made the hunter phase a lifestyle and whoever is his partner is either in for a ride or has to live with the person for who they are. This cause them to continually need to balance the equation with women or start to doubt their ego without the dominate feeling. Basically saying he going to act out to try and feel like a man, or his life cycle of what it means to be a man suggest that this is normal behavior. You can tell if he believes this by his schedule.

Why are some men so sexually driven when multiple studies and surveys show that over 50% of women are not being sexually satisfied?

Ok, now this one is the after the phase question. We know that the result of the EGO is what kind of Man the women are getting. So the result of what happen in his hunter process is the things he discovered that he like as a Man. If he did not find his like in the process or something happen that gave him a like that he now considers a part of himself then he will seek to recreate that experience in his daily routine. So most men EGO don’t grow to the point where it considers thoughts outside the hunter phase, the other was carried through the process and now have a false sense of what good and bad really is.




What makes a man 'think' he's entitled 2 get all of the benefits of a relationship, but NONE of the responsibility of taking care of the house?

Ok now this one is because the how many women set up they life for Men to behave this way. It is because this happens so much that it plays on the lazy nature some men have and they begin to lean on this process like it is the new welfare. So there are a whole group of men who behave like this and most of them and still in this phase. How can you tell those in the phase or out the phase? You ready? This one is important. Accountability

How does he rationalize this in his head?

Ok when he talks to his friends, it is one of 3 things. He either wants to pretend to his fellow friends and family that his life has upgraded and that his girl doesn’t take care of him. Or 2. He believes that some kind of way this glorifies him as a pimp because he has a girl that does well, or thinks that her doing well some kind of way makes him successful too. 3. Has a super elaborate excuse on why all of this is temporary and how he is really in progress and only a phone call away from being “back”. Aka lazy ass dude.


Why does it bother some men when his woman makes more money than him?

If a man is still in the hunter phase, then he possibly has a lot of self doubt or a great need to prove himself. He also probably has some insecurity issues he may or may not ever show or admit or has a secret need to show off like with his car or money. If he a person still in this phase he thinks that he need to have something on you in order to hold it over you head. Why? 1st it is because that is all he knows in this stage because he hasn’t made it to completion. So this is how he loves in his mind or worse this is why I can get away with what I do is because I pay the bills. Look for all of that. It is because we want to make sure we are feeding this ego in order to balance our formula that we call pride. So if we cannot figure out how to beat this phase and another something comes into the picture that makes reaching that goal harder or seems more out of reach, it gives us a hopeless feeling and then we feel less of a man. It attacks men's pride, if they are still at the hunter part of the journey. So in their mind you look like something else standing in the way of being the man that he is envisioning being. It causes the self doubt in us to flare up. If he is not in that stage of his journey, meaning he's pretty mature, ready to settle down, and he has dealt with past personal behavior, of course found God yet he may still be dealing with it in some funny ways, like going out and staying out or some other weird behavior.

Why is 3 am ok to come home on a regular basis in some men's head?

Ok If you are a man in the last stage of the phase and you reach the point where it has extended longer than the average 5-7 years a hunter takes. Or if you a man, that hunter took longer to activate like 31 + then you have made certain things about this period a way of life. So being that person is a part of him now. So most of the times it is because then Man has not grown out of this phase yet, he stayed in this phase too long, experienced too much success in this phase, or did not do well in the phase but really masked it as a compromise to the his woman. Either that or he found one that put up with his current lifestyle.

So the basic thought is, "this is who I was when you met me". If you hear some like that, it is either a lifestyle or deep into his personality. It will take some time for that to clear up to the point where he can operate in a working relationship. If and when it ever does clear up, this will help in knowing your situation. Think about that!


In the future blogs I will address mamma’s boys, strip club junkies, hood live ins, club goers and other type of guys and what makes them tick.


I hope you love and enjoy this blog. If there is anything you ever want me to blog about. I will blog about it and keep it 100. I hope you always drop by the Redd Planet. Everybody loves Redd SueperGiant, Redd Supergiant loves everyone. Yes? J

Why some Men cannot commit and TO show review

Welcome to Redd Planet,

Hello Redd Planet family,

Today is Monday August 10, 2009. I am Redd SueperGiant blogging from the Redd planet the tell all Man corner. As with every visit on Redd Planet we want to release all stress and worries in order to visit Redd Planet.

First, let's sit comfortably in our chair.
Take a few slow, deep, relaxing breaths..
Now,
Feel yourself relax more and more with each passing breath...
Think of a time in your life when you were at peace ...
Empty your mind and re-experience that time ...
Let go of all your tension and let it pour right out of your mind...
Imagine more and more stress leaving with each one of your breaths ...
Mentally tell yourself, “I am happy, I am stress-free, I am calm.”

The T.O show review


After watching the TO show I had a few lingering questions that I was left asking myself? The show's theme centered on TO's abandonment issues that may or may not cause his commitment issues which he clearly has. I was looking at this show and I noticed that TO be time management skills lack direction because he has no one there to direct his time and nothing to answer for it. Then on to the scene is this girl he met in Miami who is 23. 1st thing TO say is I knew my publicists wouldn't approve. I was thinking this is a really funny relationship him and his publicist has. So, I continue to watch and he and the nice young lady was out to eat and she says, "This is the 1st time we have been out to eat by ourselves". Normally there are like 2 or 3 people with us. Now considering none of these people were his publicist or normal crew this had to be 2 or 3 random guys he hang out with. I was like hmmm...?
I am thinking...
"Man did this dude just pick up this ill young chic he be cutting in Miami, take her out on his show on their 1st real date?"

Then flash to another scene and she said something like, “You say you want to marry someone but you not taking steps." I am thinking to myself, Redd Flag on the play. Now, how could you talk marriage to a woman and you have never been on a date with her? He must have been telling her something good for her to say something like that and they have never been out. Then something else she mentioned. She said," I don't want to leave you and you text me later and you know how we do?" I was thinking, yeah even if he does have commitment issues you all are clearly not dating. So he takes her to meet his Publicist and she cuts the girl open. It seem like a jealous woman to me. It further more suggest if this woman is this close to him and had never seen this woman. Chances are you are just the Miami team chic who he called to play for the Espy's. Sorry that is just how I see it.

Now on to the abandonment issues the show was addressing. One thing that stuck out that TO said was "I am always alone, it is always just me out here." this to me spoken like a Man who truly was affected by not having his Dad around. I think that mixed with the fact that he was an outcast and unattractive in high school still alters his male thinking sometimes. In the episode before, the look on his face when his Dad waited around before showing up said volumes. It really brought to light that most of this that he did during his rise to stardom was to prove to people he was everything they said he wasn't or more important prove he was worthy of his Dad's attention. I honestly believe that affects his relationships. Let's look how. Now we know TO is loyal to his publicist and is big on loyalty which is a common trait of a person with abandonment issues. They love to trust because it is hard for them to do so. So if he is so loyal to this woman then why is it so hard for him to commit to a loyal woman? Now 3 things about Men with abandonment issues we have to point out here. 1. Trust is big with him and loyalty is big because he doesn't want to feel like you may leave. 2. Abandonment issue people hold alot of emotions in and over time, so they have trouble bringing out these emotions on cue and putting them into words. This also causes them to respond is an outward way when faced with unjust pressure, failure or possible rejection. 3. They do not respond well to commands, so do not try to be their parent.


Where did Miami go wrong?

1. She missed assessed where the relationship was? She was excited about getting dinner and was asking about getting married.

2. She used a pressure move to try and move forward the relationship.
3. She threatens to leave and abandon him.

4. She did not present herself as having his best interest at hand versus I just wanted to be married to TO.

From a Man, It wouldn't have matter if me and Miami did have chemistry the use of a pressure tactic backfires every time. It sparks my Man need for competition and almost comes across as a threat that at that point we respond to the call for competition. This is the wrong way to go. On the other side of a Man. TO dude you were spitting game and it got you put in that point. You had clearly said one thing and had been doing another. You wouldn’t even tell her your schedule? Dude you got a publicist that does your schedule for you. Here is a tip; a Man that is interested in giving you his schedule is interested in being a fixture. You know why he is able to get away with doing this to her, 2 things, one there are no consequences for his actions. If you can't hold him accountable, then you are doing all the holding in the relationship. 2. She did not match his actions with their current situation and created a false reality which put her in a state of confusion and causes her to create a rift. Then since she comes right back when he's in town then there are no consequences to his actions. As long as these 2 things are happening you are fighting against yourself. So what could she do then, 2 things?

Men with abandonment issues want somebody they can trust 100 percent so show him you are out for his best interest and that you are a permanent fixture. If you are able to win this man's trust, you have him.
Understand what it means to be him. Abandonment men do not like undo pressure, authority, and his buttons being pushed so knowing what he is sensitive to key to getting to know one.
So to conclude for the Men. Watch your words, even a multi millionaire is someone needing to run game to get a beautiful woman makes you look less like a real Martian. What you do in the dark comes out. He probably had no idea that would come out, but I had to put him on blast for that ill bit. Even though I am TO fan for life.


A woman understanding men with abandonment issues and how sensitive they can be is important. 3 things 1. trust, 2. show him you have him best interest at heart 3. Understand when and why he is sensitive?


Well Great Morning on the Redd Planet.

I hope to always have you visit Redd Planet and awakening the fire in you to live your highest possible life. Everybody loves Redd Supergiant, and Redd Supergiant loves everybody.

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What is Redd Planet?

Welcome to Redd Planet,

Hello Redd Planet Family,

Today is Sunday August 09, 2009 and we are broad casting live from the Redd Planet known as Mars as the spot for everything from relationship, business, politics, entertainment, and spirituality. I am blogging today to give you an idea on what to expect on Mars the Redd Planet. Redd Planet spot is a place where you can hear a tell all clear opinion from a gentlemen, philosopher, clairvoyant and young business owner. We call the Men who live by this code Martian and the place where we meet spiritually Redd Planet. So to visit the Redd Planet is to enter into the mind of a Man. Usually people love Redd Planet the first time they visit my blog because of how 100 I keep it.

Today, after this blog concludes you will have absorbed how to start a path whether it is business or a journey.

First we want to take a few moments to all ourselves to enter into a peaceful state.
Sit in a comfortable position ....
You empty your mind of every thought except relaxing. ...
Let’s take a few slow, deep, relaxing breaths.
You focus on your breath flowing in and out. ...
You allow all your worries to shrink away....
Imagine more and more stress leaving with each one of your breaths.

Let go of all your tension and let it pour right out of your mind ...
Allow your mind and body to relax..
Release all your cares and worries ...
You will discover certain thoughts, images, memories, and ideas spontaneously passing through your mind about this ...
Repeat to yourself three times, “I am happy, I am stress-free, I am calm.”

Is the lack of happiness, money or motivation your biggest problem right now? Do I have it right?
What bothers you most about this?

What changes do you want to make?
Is this how you want your life to be?

How would your situation change if you found love? If you obtained success? If you had the motivation or knowledge to follow your dream.

The question to ask yourself is "What could be more important than your dream ?
If I could show a path to your dream, would that interest you?
If I can help you on your journey can you help another onto their path?... that is fair isn't it?

You don't know it yet but, at the end of this page you will have learned how to start a journey to find love, start a business, find happiness, work for yourself, discover yourself and live stress-free, worried free and never to be alone.

I wonder, even as you continue to read this blog, if you...If you're thinking.. HOW?

Well, the more you review this blog, the more you begin to find yourself looking at this as a guide to revealing how you can live the life we are suppose to live on this Planet you call Earth. Little by little you begin reading the blog it will open the door for you , you will mentally imagine listening to my voice as you read out loud ...

Here's a quick recap on what's included in Redd SuperGiant's blog

1. Relationship

• A tell all look into the mind of Martian Man.
• A step by step guide to get yourself ready to attract the right mate for you?
• How to get to Mars? How to get a Martian and How to know when you have arrived at Mars? (to know when your mate is interested)
• What women need to know to set realistic expectations of the Men in their lives.
• What makes Martians tick?
• How to develop a current relationship into the one you envision?
• How to get Venus (Women) to communicate with Martian effectively?
  

1. Business

• How to quit the job you dislike going to?
• The secrets to success to plan an event or promote a business.
• How to get the promotion you deserve?
• I want to own a business, but I don't know where to start?
• Secrets revealed: What are the secrets stars know that I don't that is keeping me from my big break
  

1. Personal

• How does spirituality affect success in love and business?
• I think I have a Spiritual gift but I don't know how to use it?
• How can I be happy, stress-free, and free everyday?
• How to overcome addiction or personal issues?
• healing

We hope you always drop by and keep it tuned for the answers to questions of the universe.

Love to all, and we all love the Fire known as Redd SuperGiant

Success Secrets from a 29 Black Male Business owner..

This is my Mantra and prayer.This is the Mantra for Success.It changed my life forever. This from Dr. Joesph Murphy's research. Say this to yourself a few times a day for at least 7 minutes. Thank God for the blessings and I hope you ALL get everything your heart desires.

Wealth, Success, Peace, Love, Happiness, Prosperity

It is my fundamental right to be Rich. I am here to lead an abundant life and to be happy, radiant, and free.

Wealth, Success, Peace, Love, Happiness, Prosperity

I like money, l love it. It use it wisely, constructively, and judiciously. Money is constantly flowing in my life. I release it with joy, and it returns to me multiplied in a wonderful. It is good and very good. Money flows to me in avalanches of abundance.I use it for good only. I am grateful for my good and the infinite riches of my subconscious mind.

Wealth, Success, Peace, Love, Happiness, Prosperity

Stay humble,serve and remember when you receive to give God the glory and pass this information along just as I shared it with you. God wants us to have it. I want you all to have it too.

J. J. Bell